Let's start this off with a bang, shall we? Even though most of us men have fantasized about being with two women at the same time, I'd like to demonstrate that our minds are capable of transcending beyond such a visceral scenario... I call this...


...the tao of menage et trois...


Self Respect
Everyone should know what they're getting into. This activity isn't something that would serve as a good basis for any kind of relationship beyond the act itself. Be clear, open, and honest about your goals. If you enter this activity with the expectation of wanting more beyond it, stay away. Knowing your emotional limits and adhering to them will ensure that you don't get hurt.




Open Communication
Communicate EVERYTHING. Both fears and desires. It shows that you trust your partners enough by exposing some vulnerability. Laying everything out in the open will bring comfort to the situation. Respect any guidelines expressed by either partner. Attempt to fulfill each individual's requests. Understand that everyone is unique in their view of what's pleasurable. Under some circumstances, it may take a little bit of "stepping into someone else's shoes." Know that the effort in and of itself will be appreciated.




Evenly Distributed Attention
ALWAYS acknowledge BOTH partners' existence. Whether it's penetration or something as simple as the brushing of hair. You should never do anything that would be interpreted as exclusion. There will be times when a partner may want to take on a passive role and just watch. In that situation, keep frequent eye contact. The moment is for all three of you to share.




Pace Yourself
Even the STALLIONs among us have limits. Keep close inventory on your stamina. A good technique in prolonging the activity is to incorporate some "relaxation" time in between vigorous segments. During this time, it's perfectly acceptable to let yourself become flacid. Most women enjoy bringing a man to full attention. It makes her feel attractive and special (because she is and they all are). Hold off on the orgasm since it signifies the end of the session (unless you're one of the blessed few who can continue immediately after having an orgasm).




Know When To Quit
No, this doesn't refer to a particular session. Let's be honest. Unless you and partners' hearts are made of stone, someone is eventually going to get hurt. Be very attentive to the every-day mannerisms of your partners (or whenever you see them). Any hint of emotional attachment is the signal to start the cool-down process. Reiterate the expectations everyone agreed upon in the beginning and have an open dialogue about what the current expectations are. If expectations have changed, abstain from the having any more sessions with those partners. Since emotional attachment takes some time to fade away, don't go back to those partners unless you either want something more with one of them or you're sure that both of their feelings have adequately subsided. It's always safest to call it off forever.

hhhmm.....what to write?? to avoid from being kicked off again.....?? well i hate to get off the senseless blogs about girls and stuff, well it's not like i have a choice, because i'm kinda broke these days, being a college student and all, and can't afford to go out...but anyway....what's up with those people that like to drink and smoke all the time?? they are usually guys most of the time....i mean after a while, don't you eventually think to yourself, "why do i always like to get faded?" i guess it might be a phase...but i wonder how come girls never end up in this phase like guys, or at least not to the extreme that guys take it, like everyday or every other day.....i mean do girls like to drink because they wanna get drunk.. or is it because other people do it, or they feel they have to drink when they go out because everyone else is doing it?... well i can only speak of what i see, and as a college student...most of you reading this, will probably something that you noticed when you were all in college....but probably never thot about it....i think this is just a phase in college and eventually dies off when everybody starts to work.....

...me...

born in Manila, Philippines... brought over to the US at the age of 3... raised Christian, now agnostic... received a BS in Computer Engineering at UC Santa Cruz... currently the chief architect at some small e-commerce company... living in the city of San Carlos with all the old, white, retired folk... in the processes of reclaiming "lost time" (anyone know where I can take sax lessons?)... curious to find out what interesting experiences this blog will bring...

Why do some single people always feel so sorry for themselves??

Just because you're single and you know/think I'm single, doesn't mean that you can bitch and complain to me about your singleness. Why did hella single people call me on Valentine's Day and ask me to kick it with them? (guys and girls included). No, I don't want to hang around your sorry ass on Valentine's day just because you have nothing to do and don't want to reminded of your singleness...

Have fun. Party. Drink (for fun, not for depression). Meet people. Do your thang.

Don't buy into these commercial holidays, and don't feel sorry for yourself. The only person that feels sorry for your loneliness is you.

P.S. Never buy anyone flowers on Valentine's day. The second you do something predictable is the second that you become average... And who really wants to be average?

aaawwwww shhiieeeeeeeeeeeeettttt...............
poi dog is back....damn i didn't even know i got kicked off... sorry guys i got lazy over this Christmas break and totally forgot. but oh well, in response to Stallion's comments on girls, i would have to agree. but all i got to say is good luck with finding ANY girl like that, or any guy like that for that matter....because like the great philosopher said, i forget his name, the world is an egoistic society, meaning that everybody is always gonna do something for their own benefit....no matter what you do! I know it's hard to believe because nobody wants to think that they are selfish....but if you think about the most self-less act....like goin into a burning building to save some strangers....you might think that you did a good and noble act....but soon as it is over, your gonna think to urself about how proud of yourself by what you did....so then the act that seemed self-less worked to feed your ego....and speaking on that. i've learned that from my ex-girlfriend....that there really is no one in that world that is goin to look out for you, except for yourself, so i say, just try to get yours fellas. As soon as you depend on someone to have your back, they eventually stab you in the back either because they are looking out for themselves and don't have time for you or they do not see how helping you would help them out in anyway, so why bother....but i'm not bitter, just speaking the truth. even when you are trying to be all sweet and nice to a girl, like buying dinner and flowers, it's not cuz we're we really like you, or maybe be it is, but it's because we're all after that one thing...uuhh huuh hhuuhh!! i believe that there are no self-less people in this world, because when it all comes down to it, any noble act will make a person feel good about themself, feeding their ego... don't get me wrong...there are good people who might be genuinely self-less, although there are very few, but the majority of the people, are in the world trying to get "theirs" and it's hard to deal with those people especially when it works against you, but you can't hate on them for tryin to do what they gotta do in this life....because you only get one life....so i say take care of yourselves and take advantage of what is given to you, feelings may get hurt, but it happens to everybody, it cannot be avoided because it's a part of life, this egoistic society is not anything we can control because it's a part of nature,
so leave it all on the field...and don't hold back.....because in this world, i'm just gonna be a squirrel trying to get a nut

Poi Dog is Back

Because I hate to kick people off for not posting, I've met with Poi and he promised to write at least once a week.

There we go. He's back on.

Voodoo

STALLION IS BACK W/ A VENGEANCE!
STALLION!! na nah na nah nah na nah nah STALLION!! na nah na nah nah na nah nah STALLION! na nah na nah nah na nah nah. Alright enough with the theme music. But yes.. I'm back.. Sorry for the delay. Let's just say I've been incognito comteplating my next move... (How freakin cool and suave does that sound?) Actually, the truth is I've just been lazy and busy at work! haha!! Well, I can't disappoint my fans, so I'm back. And ready to get right into it.

Let's see where do I begin.. Well...Chicks are in the Stallion's doghouse right now.. Actuallly a chick.. I recently ended ties with a girl that didn't believe in meeting halfway and working together to solve problems, so you can say that I'm a bit jaded. Jaded, not bitter. Never bitter. It's the best for the both of us, but I must say that this chick helped the Stallon figure alot of stuff out about himself.. Like.. the Stallion can't go out with high maintenance chicks anymore! It's not going to work because the Stallion has zero patience for people worrying about how they look all the time esp. when we go to sporting events or to the movies.. "Baby.. we're going to be in the dark??!" haha.. But the main thing now is this.. when it comes to girls.. the Stallion must see this word in a girl or it's peace see you later.. The buzz word class is "Empathy." If a girl can't put herself in someone's else's shoes or attempt to feel someone else's pain... you're headed for a "My way or the highway" my brothers and pull the plug because you can't change'em... And nobody is worth it that much unless you are a sucker.. And the Stallion is defintely no sucker..

See.. sometimes it takes going through some tough shit, to really understand yourself, others, and even the world around you. You shouldn't wait to be that way, but sometimes that's what it takes to open your eyes. And let's just say that without empathy, you will never know right from wrong, if you're hurting someone, even how you sound to others because you only care what you believe and hear.. And these people usually align themselves only with friends that accept who they are no matter how nonsense they can be and that don't question or challenge them, usually old friends from h.s. who've been through it..They also don't really make attempts to make new friends, because frankly.. they don't have much to offer them because they they already have close friends so why do much for new ones? Imagine trying to get along with someone like that??? Amen..

IMO, you don't understand anything and will never learn anything unless you can step into someone else's world and forget about who you are every once in awhile. You true folks feel me on that? I believe it's a spiritual gift that you must look deep within for because it is hard to obtain. For some people, it takes a lifetime to acquire and sometimes never! I mean.. think about it.. Our world is built on individualistic ideals and basically selfishness- You almost have to be that way to succeed.. you know the boot strap theory.. we must pull ourselves up to make it.. so it makes sense that many people are non-empathetic.. But I just think that the way of the world and relationships revolve around some sort of communication and the understanding of people other than yourself. Why this chick could not see that is not surprising, but sad.. But oh well.. everything happens for a reason... which is why I'm explaining this..

Man.. I got deep on ya'll... but I told you I was back with a vengeance! A vengeance against pretty girls who think they should have things handed to them, who think a guy should kiss their ass and accept who they are, and see the world only through one window. For one, they are making those girls who are educated, work hard fighting "double jeopardy" in this world, confident, sincere, genuine, and truly representin'.... look bad. If you are one of these "i need attention" girls, good luck to you and your shallow look on life.. We'll see how far it gets you.. And to all the fellas out there.. Don't be a sucker. Stand up to your girl if she's pulling some nonsense because if woman want respect, they should be treated like people, not princesses.. and it should be earned like everyone else. Word...

The pot has been stirred.. The Stallion has spoken and all again is well.... Good day folks...