she's scared, he's scared
read the first chapter of she's scared, he's scared (written by the folks who coined the word commitmentphobic and who wrote the book, Men who can't love) And then I got scared and ended up venting about 45 minutes to ms Voodoo about my ever so perfect relationship with E.
First off, I can think of at least one person I am going to get that book for. You know who you are and your birthday's comin up...perfect excuse.
E's perfect, except I have this imminent fear I'm going to be blind sided and not see where the curve ball was comin from. It's not him, it's me. And I frickin hate doing the asking... "where are going", "are we on the same page". All legit questions but gee... I'd really like not to have to ask those questions, but I'm just so insecure these days, I need to hear it.
la la la...
breathe mooncake, breathe...
1 Comments:
What I love about this book is that it shows you that people who are afraid of commitment have a very real and recognizable pattern. If you start seeing ANY of the things described in this book, it's time to start reading about ways to protect your heart.
I found a reference to this book on a site about commitment-phobes and it changed my life. "He's Scared, She's Scared" really made me see what my options were after being dumped so viciously. I learned to protect my heart...
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