le toothbrush

i now have a toothbrush at HIS place, and although the girlfriends and I debate the significance of that, i have a feeling men hardly ever think about things like that. It's amazing how being different male and female psyche is.
Was reading Plath over the weekend, and here's a line which I thought was commendable (amongst many others):
"What a man wants is a mate, and what a woman wants is infinte security".
There's certainly truth to that. Nothing gets to me more than when I am insecure and have no idea where a relationship is going. Although even when I do, and I know someone is perfectly serious about me, I seem to have no problems throwing that relationship away. I know I'm rather dysfunctional that way and will require years of therapy to get that problem fixed. Still, the point is I've realized over the years that despite the cool cat look, am terribly terribly dependent on that sense of security and will stop at nothing to get it.