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Wednesday, July 16, 2003

Ten Numbers

If anyone has not seen the movie, Swingers, where have you been? Guy has girl, loses girl, becomes depressed, fails at first meeting new girls, and guy finally meets a girl. It is a great movie to which any guy can relate, and for even any female to relate.

There is a part during the movie which the main character has trouble deciding. When do you call someone when you get a phone number?

After a night from either at a bar or a club, I have succeeded in obtaining the ultimate goal--phone number from someone I think is interesting and attractive. Everyone has gone through the motions of deciding when to call; I know I have. Shall I wait one day or two? If I call her too soon, does it make me appear desperate? What do I say? Endless thoughts run through my mind, and it happnes to everyone.

Obtaining the number may be the treasure from a night, but what I do with the treasure and what happens is another adventure