This week, will blog a bunch of lists, and I encourage you to make all these lists as well, since they have proven to be v.therepeutic and effective with my students/patients/ clients.

This list is entitled: The next guy I date.

The next guy I date will:
1. pick me up for our first date
2. pick me up for our first date in his car
3. sit through a saturday afternoon of simultaneous baseball games on TV with me
4. have some sense of world geography, ie: will not ask if Singapore is part of China
5. be interesting at least for drinks

(1) and (2) are extremely important as I have not been met at my door, or picked up on a date since moving to public transportation friendly San Francisco. Would like to vaguely remember what that feels like.
(3) is the "what's it really like to hang out with Mooncake?" If you can't swing that, kinda hard to go past first base you know.
(4)I cannot be more turned off by anything than a guy who doesn't know his geography
(5) Ever had a guy talk to you about everything and the kitchen sink over your martini? At least make the kitchen sink an interesting story.

Thought this list would be wayy longer, but when I actually wrote it, realized that am not really asking for a lot. Very little in fact. Which may well be my problem after all.