I hate confrontations. If I had a therapist, he would say that I was non-confronatational in nature and would ask me to explore reasons why.
*because I hated watching my parents fight*
*because when they fought I wished they'd just stop it and compromise... much easier than fighting in car on way home from Granma's*
*because if you had your shit together, you won't have to face this confrontation*
*I hate not having shit together*
*because some things just don't have any explanations*
*because I'm happy the way I am without fighting*
*because confrontations get you no where*... (although I know that's not true either in some cases)*
*because there's gotta be an easier way than this*

And then if therapist were sadistic Rogerian style therapist, he would say why do you say that?

To which I would say, so I can pay you another $150 a pop to discover why.

Ahh... the joys of therapy