oh yeah, to add to my last comment...she dumped me, and her excuse was because her parents wouldn't want her to marry me, as if we're even thinking about it, and then start's seeing this other guy, and she claims that there was no other reason for our breakup, other than her parents...who are very ignorant by the way....and this is after 3 years, where nothing went wrong and were the bestest friends...ah well, life goes on