I feel you young padiwan jedi... As a season veteran.. aka Benito Santiago.. I can tell you that 80% of the girls that go to clubs don't neccesarily want to go "hit the hay" with you.. but wouldn't mind some stimulating conversation, having you buy drinks for them, and flirting, which then could lead to something more.. Of course.. us dudes.. are thinking the other way around. Is she "hit it" material.. if so, then continue to talk to her.. and maybe she turns out to be a good person and a potential girlfriend after you seal the deal.. haha. Nah. but seriously.. In a cynical, yet real way to look at, isn't that better? Because you get to see someone at their most vulnerable state (naked), you sleep with them and evaluate their performance right away which will decipher alot of truths about someone (uh.. humm.. closet freak or not)... Before you go and invest the time into someone.. Isn't sex a huge part of the relationship? Usually as a guy, when you meet someone.. you buy her flowers, go to the movies.. buy dinner, and all that cool, yet expensive stuff.... then to find out that a girl won't even let you feel her up after the first time you mess around! And won't go down on you? How ubsurd is that!?! Wouldn't you girls want to know if the guy is a "STALLION" or not right off the bat and know if he's going to give you what you want right away? Nothing sucks (not literally) more than to be with someone that's not that great in bed.. It ruins everything else because there's nothing to look forward to at the end of the day! And you know you won't be able to marry this person unless you take some lesson plans out or invest in spice on your cable dial.. Oh well.. not all guys are good as well.. but remember this.. What Viagra can do, it can't cure bad rhythm...The Stallion Speaks..