Game 1, world SERIES tomorrow!! go Giants!! But anyway, in response to one of the comments, its true that if there is any kind of talk in your relationship about promising to best friends even if you break up is complete crap! if you start hearing stuff like that, you are settin up yourself to get hurt...this means that if we break up, because i find another man, i would still like to talk to you, while i'm tryin to date this new guy, so just in case things don't work this new guy, we can talk about it together...they might as well just as you to slap you in the face while they are talkin about this best friend bull shit, i think its cool to be friends after, but it doesn't help to know that you are gettin replaced right away, and right in front of you, and they wonder what's our problem, why are they mad? of course they don't think of that because they have the comfort of having this new guy to talk to, they don't even know, but they put this new person in front of you so easily...or maybe because they've been doin something behind your back the whole time...but hey this can work both ways for guys and girls...just hate the guys who friggin hang around, with the girl w/the b.f., hoping in his head that he can get with her, so he plays the cool type and becomes friends, jocking her like crazy in his head, then they break up, and whaddya know, there more than friends.... i mean just tell the truth about the breakup, we don't wanna hear all this other crap, why...but just prepared when you say why, to duck or "move get out the way" because i'm bout to be swinging away like barry bonds in the world series and hit that shit all the way to McCovey cove...maybe that's why stuff like usually happens over the phone... all that we ask from if you've been a long term relationship, show some respect, and wait at least 2months before seeing someone....but hey some girls or guys don't realize that there's no I in team, so what can you do? and if you see them together, i know your thinking about giving some RBI's (real bad injuries) to the new guy....but like the stallion says, "no phase" just brush that shit off, and let it go, like a loud fart in the club that no one can hear....ya'll know what i'm talkin about